I believe the War Merit Medal looks OK from your image of the obverse side.
The H.J. pin is not a good, you are correct. Otto Hoffman did make some HJ triangles, I've seen a period add, but not metal insignia. The odd colored HJ metal pins are fantasy items.
Man.......everyone is entitled to mistakes in this hobby..lol..a picker friend sent me these pics....I was hoping the Hungarian party pin was legit!!!! Now that I have the items in hand...I don't think any are real....lol...I will post better pics tom hopefully....the a lot only cost me $66.00 at a small country auction.... lesson learned, the hard way!
A HJ pin was never made other than the national colors period... And War Merit Medal looks OK too me also.
I do not like dished pins or the coffin style pin plate on items
Even though these pics provided do not have such plate
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